Dark Odyssey: Surrender
San Jose, California · United States
A private hotel weekend combining classes, social space and adult play, with a strong emphasis on consent and community.
Who it is forAll genders
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San Jose, California · United States
A private hotel weekend combining classes, social space and adult play, with a strong emphasis on consent and community.
Who it is forAll genders
Official event siteAmsterdam, North Holland · Netherlands
Wasteland’s large international fetish-fantasy party at RADION, with fashion, performance, art and music.
Who it is forMixed audience
Official event siteZaandam, North Holland · Netherlands
An international fetish party at North Sea Venue built around radical self-expression, spectacle, fashion and dance.
Who it is forMixed audience
Official event siteWashington, District of Columbia · United States
A long-running leather and fetish gathering with a vendor market, social programme and Mr Mid-Atlantic Leather contest.
Who it is forPrimarily gay men
Official event siteBaltimore, Maryland · United States
A winter hotel takeover centred on sexuality, kink, learning and community, with workshops and private social spaces.
Who it is forAll genders
Official event siteMcAllen, Texas · United States
South Texas weekend of geared expression, dance parties, social events, a vendor market and the Mr RGV Leather competition.
Who it is forLGBTQIA+
Official event siteBerlin, Berlin · Germany
A full week of parties, community gatherings and fetish events, including the Mr Fetish Berlin contest.
Who it is forPrimarily gay men
Official event sitePortland, Oregon · United States
A three-day conference with more than 50 educational classes, afternoon and evening play parties and a large vendor mall.
Who it is forAll genders
Official event siteLondon, England · United Kingdom
Four days of parties, workshops, shopping, performance and social events, with latex, rubber and alternative fashion throughout.
Who it is forMixed audience
Official event siteSacramento, California · United States
A leather and kink community weekend offering education, title contests, parties and social space.
Who it is forAll genders
Official event siteChicago, Illinois · United States
An inclusive celebration of leather culture and fetish expression supporting the Leather Archives & Museum.
Who it is forAll genders
Official event siteMunich, Bavaria · Germany
A major European fetish and BDSM convention with exhibitors, stage programming and community events.
Who it is forMixed audience
Official event siteSan Francisco, California · United States
Folsom Street’s more compact summer leather and kink street fair in San Francisco’s South of Market district.
Who it is forAdults; check organiser guidance
Official organiserColumbus, Ohio · United States
A large men’s leather weekend built around community, play, education and a vendor mart.
Who it is forMen
Official event siteSt Petersburg, Florida · United States
The 25th anniversary of the creator-focused trade show, with education, a vendor marketplace, demonstrations and parties.
Who it is forAll genders, 18+
Official event siteMontréal, Quebec · Canada
Canada’s international fetish gathering, with workshops, an expo and vendor fair, fashion, shows and late-night parties.
Who it is forAll genders
Official event siteSan Francisco, California · United States
The major outdoor leather, kink and alternative-culture street fair, supporting community organisations and visibility.
Who it is forAdults; check organiser guidance
Official organiserLeeds, England · United Kingdom
A night of drag and adult cabaret at Wharf Chambers, held as a community fundraiser.
Who it is forCheck organiser guidance
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
Parties, performances, workshops, demonstrations and vendors at Electrowerkz.
Who it is forCheck organiser guidance
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
A seated cultural screening of A Body to Live In at the Hen & Chickens Theatre.
Who it is forAdults
Event pageGlasgow, Scotland · United Kingdom
TG’s Glasgow debut combined DJs, stage performance and a dungeon at The Vic.
Who it is forStrict dress code
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
Independent traders, workshops, socialising and an evening afterparty at The Steel Yard.
Who it is forAdults
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
A lower-pressure social for people curious about Klub Verboten to meet members and ask questions.
Who it is forMembership guidance applies
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
A community-run rubber gathering centred on conversation, connection and optional play.
Who it is forRubber dress code
Event pageBrighton, England · United Kingdom
A Brighton fetish night welcoming consensual play while maintaining a clear no-sex boundary.
Who it is forAdults
Event pageManchester, England · United Kingdom
A house-music night at The Eagle welcoming kink, fetish and neon looks.
Who it is forMen
Event pageManchester, England · United Kingdom
A structured, trauma-informed programme beginning with embodied consent before optional kink content.
Who it is forQueer and trans participants
Event pageBirmingham, England · United Kingdom
A multi-floor market with stalls, stage shows, workshops, rope classes and an afterparty.
Who it is forAdults
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
Social space, a market, food and equipped areas for rope and impact play in Brixton.
Who it is forQueer, sex-positive community
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
Three dancefloors, theatre, live entertainment, a monitored dungeon and dark playroom at Scala.
Who it is forStrict dress code
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
A late-night techno event with door vetting and detailed consent and personal-space rules.
Who it is forMembers; strict dress code
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
A major Ministry of Sound night with DJs, performers and consent-led club rules.
Who it is forStrict dress code
Event pageManchester, England · United Kingdom
A community-run social with a free pre-meet and both casual and fetish clothing accepted.
Who it is forMen, including trans men
Event pageFlagg, Derbyshire · United Kingdom
A full camping weekend organised by the Club Locked community at Flagg Barn.
Who it is forMen, including trans men
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
A smaller, play-focused night with a dancefloor, roaming performers and themed playrooms.
Who it is forStrict dress code
Event pageLondon, England · United Kingdom
An early-evening sober gathering built around conscious clubbing, connection, ritual and fetish expression.
Who it is forAdults
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